A Matter of Degree

Have you ever noticed that where a person grows up determines their tolerance for heat or cold? What one person considers a balmy day is another’s scorching afternoon, or chilly morn.

Be it air-conditioned consistency, Arctic breezes, or tropical humidity, our bodies develop an expectation and a comfort level for whatever environment we call home.

That’s not weakness; it’s adaptation.  The human species is pretty darn good at molding itself to a planet that has an amazingly diverse range of climates.

Yet underlying our diversity is a common universal physiology. And where we are most comfortable is often simply a matter of degree.

So too our great diversity of faiths, developed and evolved to fit the environments in which they’re practiced.

And underlying them, the common universal physiology of the Golden Rule.

We know what happens to species that are too specialized, with too narrow a tolerance for changes in their environment, too rigid a set of requirements for food or shelter or some other necessity of life – they become extinct.

To attempt to force everyone into a single, narrow spiritual mode is just as deadly.

Humanity is physically stronger for the diversity of climates that we’ve adapted to.

And we are spiritually stronger for the diversity of faiths in which we find the Divine.

It’s simply a matter of degree.

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Barack Obama – How Will We Respond?

How will we respond to the opportunity inherent in Barack Obama’s emphasis of the Golden Rule in his speeches, and indeed in his exemplification of it in his efforts to open a new global dialogue?

This will be the third article I’ve dedicated to Barack Obama’s use of the Golden Rule. The others are here -

As you can see if you read the comments on the Proclamation piece, those who want to fuel the antagonistic and confrontational worldview that has characterized politics, and for that matter much of the world, for so long are ever quick to try to derail any progress Obama might make. It is up to all of us to ensure that doesn’t happen.

If I were a believer in the interventionist kind of God of some theologies, I would say that God must have intervened to get Obama elected in the first place. But I think the answer is more mundane, if no less awe-inspiring – enough people of good conscience across the US realized they needed to act, and then they did.

But his election provides not so much a solution as it does an opportunity, an opportunity for all of us who believe that the principle that we’ve come to call the Golden Rule is the only viable global ethic for what is rapidly becoming a global civilization, to raise our voices. Not just Americans, not just the west, but all of us, globally.

Responses to the President’s speech in Cairo emphasized that words were not enough – that they must be followed up by actions. I could not agree more.

But if we expect that action to come from the President alone, or even from one country alone, it is doomed to fail; and those who prefer strife to peace, prosperity for the few and poverty for the many, exclusionary dogma over inclusive vision, will continue to drive the world to the apocalyptic destiny that feeds their paranoia.

The action must come from all of us.

Never before in the history of the world have we had the tools and the opportunity for change come together in such an auspicious way. Never before has the world faced so many global challenges at the same time. Environmental, political, or economic; these are challenges that force us to realize that we cannot act in isolation. Never before has the developed world been so interconnected, allowing us to act in unified ways; making it more difficult for those who would control the message to silence the voice of peace and reason.

From events that ripple around the world as time zones fly by, be it noon, midnight, or the 8:30 PM time chosen for Earth Hour; to blogs and videos and emails that flash globally in seconds, the message of interconnectedness has never been so clear.

The interfaith and Golden Rule communities have an incredible opportunity, and a new champion. Never before have so many been spiritually seeking. Never before, despite what the extremists say, and indeed what the media puts before us, has the grip of dogma been so tenuous. Never before have we had a universal message so ready for delivery.

How will we respond to the opportunity that President Barack Obama has presented us? Will we speak up? Or will we sit back, merely “wishing him well.” That, it seems to me, is rather like sending a man naked into battle, with no more than a pat on the back. It forces him, no matter his lofty intentions, to survive by dodging, rather than neutralizing, the people we sent him into the fray to save us from.

Or will we stand up and be counted? Will we make our voices heard, our resolve clear? Will the forces opposing Obama know that they must oppose us as well? And that we outnumber them exponentially?

I’m a fan of what I suppose might be called “lone hero” movies – you know the kind – a single hero comes into a town that is oppressed and victimized by a gang of one kind or another, the populace cowed, certain it can do nothing. Past champions have been “made examples of.” Eventually, the hero faces the gang, his defeat seeming certain. But this time, the townspeople step up, this time they overcome their fear and apathy; this time they realize the power of unity to end oppression.

It is up to us my friends – will we act? Or will let our apathy, masked as “tolerance” or the desire to “go along to get along” paralyze us?

It only takes a small effort to “raise our hands” and be counted.  Here are four ways that we can start. I invite you to suggest more -

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As many a motivational speaker has noted, success is often a matter of knowing when to seize the day, whether that’s success in business, our personal lives … or in changing the world.

Together we can make this a Golden Rule world. What are we waiting for?

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Obama Cites Golden Rule in Cairo

There is also one rule that lies at the heart of every religion – that we do unto others as we would have them do unto us. This truth transcends nations and peoples – a belief that isn’t new; that isn’t black or white or brown; that isn’t Christian, or Muslim or Jew. It’s a belief that pulsed in the cradle of civilization, and that still beats in the heart of billions. It’s a faith in other people, and it’s what brought me here today. Barack Obama, speaking in Cairo

The President of the USA, by using the Golden Rule so prominently on a consistent basis, has the ability to raise awareness of its centrality in human society. However, as has been said of other areas that he’s addressed, no one person can change the world. It is up to all of us to become more deliberate in our use of the Golden Rule, more intentional in applying it to our own relationships.

Obama can be the catalyst. as others have been in their own spheres of influence. It is we who must provide the catalyst’s reaction. All too often, people try to imbue their leaders with magical qualities. We elect them, and then we go back to whatever we were doing as if they could defeat destructive ideologies single-handedly, like a knight slaying a dragon.

Those who oppose pluralism, who do not wish to see peace between diverse cultures, seldom work that way. They’re more like a swarm of ants. Containing them requires the concerted efforts of many.

There has been a growing awareness of the Golden Rule over the last few years, a renewed focus on its ability to offer us common ground. The movement, unorganized as it may be, now appears to have a champion.

Lets not leave him to carry the torch alone.

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O Siem

I’ve always found O Siem, by Susan Aglukark, to be a very inspirational piece of music. The song includes the words “Take the hand of one close by …. And watch the walls come tumbling down.

Why do we find that so difficult to do? Human beings are social creatures – and yet it seems that we would rather maintain our suspicions, our “walls” both literal and figurative, than reach out to one another.

O Siem has a powerful beat. This music was never intended to lull us into contemplation. We do need time to reflect of course. But more often we need to be stirred and moved to action. Our spirituality was not intended to be lived out only with silence and immobility, cloistered monks and vows of silence.

Like the music of O Siem, Creation is vital and dynamic, a living expression of the Creator and the Created. That life and that vitality call us to “dance in the burning flame” of a world that is ever changing.

If it is to be a universal principle, the Golden Rule must be equally able to function in the high moments of life as well as it’s quiet byways. To fuel the “fires of freedom” with an understanding of each other and the things that make us unique.

As the refrain of O Siem says, though diverse, we are all family.

Susan Aglukark performing O Siem

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Making Space

Peace comes from being able to contribute the best that we have, and all that we are, toward creating a world that supports everyone. But it is also securing the space for others to contribute the best that they have and all that they are. - Hafsat Abiola, activist, founder of KIND

You can find out more about Hafsat Abiola here, and about KIND here.

“Securing the space for others to contribute the best that they have and all that they are.” That, it seems to me, is an important understanding of the Principle of Mutuality.

Often, we accept the Golden Rule as a measure of tolerance. But it’s much more than that. “Tolerance” can easily become its own sort of benevolent dictatorship. We “tolerate” others only so long as we retain control of whatever situation we’re in.  To move more deeply into mutuality requires us to engage in an act of trust, to release that control. That’s a much harder level of understanding to reach.

It is also essential.

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Understanding

I do not want the peace which passeth understanding. I want the understanding which bringeth peace. - Helen Keller 1880 – 1968, author, activist

When I read this quote it immediately struck me that, in just a few short words, Keller had done more than just dispense with what is often empty rhetoric. She had also set a new, higher bar for understanding.

We often read our own meaning into the words of others of course. But I think that Ms. Keller would be well satisfied with the understanding of pluralism and the centrality of the Golden Rule.

The understanding that brings peace doesn’t insist on one Truth. It values many Truths. It doesn’t dismiss the experiences of others. It embraces them. It doesn’t pretend that all is already known. It nurtures new insight.

Let’s hope that the understanding that brings peace is not too long delayed in its journey.

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Metaphorical God

The limits of my metaphorical language for God are the limits of my experience of GodPaul McKenna, creator of the Golden Rule Poster

Whether we call it western rationalism, scientific method, or just plain old hard nosed practicality, those whose worldview is based on observable fact have long been at odds with those who see the universe from perspectives that are less cut and dried.

And not without cause. It wasn’t until we accepted that the world followed logical processes of cause and effect, entropy and evolution, that we became capable of transforming human existence. And while we may argue that not all of that transformation has been good, it would also be difficult to argue that we would have been better off without it.

And yet – humanity is a species of art as much as it is of engineering. Our creativity begins, not with calculations in our computers, but with beauty in our hearts, poetry in our heads.

Metaphor is the language of that creativity. It allows us to describe the indescribable; to experience that which we can only imagine in the tiniest part.

So it is with our experience of God, of Theos, of the Divine. Where once our ancestors turned God into little more than men and women writ large, we, through metaphor, bring a depth to our language for God that we were without.

This doesn’t mean that we know God, or that, as some try to claim, we are God. It means, rather, that our experience of God can, if we allow it, be more profound than was possible to any before us.

And if that is true, how we can do less than strive all the more to act in ways that are in accord with that experience?

With compassion, and love, and generosity to one another and all of Creation.

And that will not be metaphor. That will be Golden.

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The Beginning of Wisdom

Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom -Theodore Isaac Rubin, American psychiatrist and author

Although the Golden Rule isn’t really about kindness, it’s certainly true that kindness is often a result of its application.

But that wasn’t what struck me when I read this quote. What came to mind was how often our process of learning seems to be an almost circular path. It’s only on reflection that we can discern the beginning of our journey; only after the journey is underway that we know it has begun at all.

May we all resolve to work toward the realization of a Golden Rule World. And may we one day look back, hoping that the journey will soon start, and realize that we’re already well on the way..

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A Matter of Time

Why is it that history seems to take such a long time?Anonymous

Or maybe you prefer all things come to those who wait. However we phrase it, it seems to me that sometimes we have to wonder at the cost of the waiting. How many people perish from famine or war or persecution while we wait for humanity to learn from its mistakes and to accept its underlying relationship with each other and with all things in the world?

There are those who believe that we cannot influence the unfolding of history. But if that were the case, there’d be no purpose to philosophy, to the quest for knowledge. Why be concerned with the Golden Rule if our efforts in our relationships have no affect on either the other or ourselves?

No, perhaps history takes such a long time because we are unwilling to bring it into being more quickly. Perhaps, with the energetic application of the Golden Rule, we can make injustice history just a little more quickly.

Couldn’t hurt to try.

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Mystical Loneliness

Loneliness is the fundamental force that urges mystics to a deeper union with God. An experience of God quenches this thirst for the absolute but at the same time, paradoxically, whets it, because this is an experience that can never be total; by necessity, the knowledge of God is always partial. So loneliness opens up mystics to a desire to love each other and every human being as God loves them. – Jean Vanier, founder of L’Arche

According to several studies, those in the “West” are among the loneliest people on the planet. We bustle about in our cities, on buses, subways, and crowded elevators, and yet we never really connect with the people we’re so very close to.

If Vanier is right, could that be a good thing? We may not all be mystics, but if our disconnection from each other leads us to seek a closer connection with God, we may also, in time, find a closer connection with each other.

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